Congrats, You’ve Been Cast in a Role You Never Auditioned For

Performing Isn’t Foreplay

Hope you like emotional labor and sexual scripts that make zero damn sense.

This week, we’re blowing up the idea that your sex drive is broken—when really, it’s just buried under decades of roleplay you didn’t consent to. Whether you’ve been labeled too needy, too bossy, too passive, too confusing, or just plain “too much,” you’ve probably internalized a few scripts that were more about survival than satisfaction.

Good news? You get to fire the director. And rewrite the whole damn plot.

Worksheet 1: Unscripted and Unbothered

This one’s for the high-achievers in emotional management and unsolicited seduction strategy.
You’ll name the roles you’ve played, trace them back to the systems that planted them (hi, patriarchy), and start unlearning the ones that made your body go numb inside even while smiling.
💡 Warning: May cause spontaneous sighs of relief and a deep desire to nap naked.

Worksheet 2: Binary Thinking & the Erotic Identity Crisis

A.K.A. “Why do I feel like a glitch in the Matrix every time I try to initiate sex?”
You’ll dig into how binary scripts (masc/fem, dom/sub, top/bottom) mess with your mojo—and how your body might just be craving something queerer, weirder, and wilder.
This one’s a brain-rewiring session disguised as a worksheet. Because honestly? Your erotic brain isn’t confused. It’s just fucking exhausted.

This week is your invitation to stop auditioning for a role you didn’t ask for and start exploring the version of you that doesn’t need a script to be sexy.

🎤 Mic drop.

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Dr. Misty Gibson

Dr. Misty Gibson is a business owner, author, entrepreneur, certified sex therapist, and an educator. She is passionate about mental health for neurodivergent and queer folx, and encouraging a sex-positive atmosphere within relationships.

https://untamedember.com
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