You’re not low libido—you’re just over pretending. This week in the Ember Vault, we’re tearing off the gender scripts that tank your turn-on and replacing them with erotic truth bombs, nervous system realness, and permission to stop performing. Your sex drive isn’t broken—it’s just done being micromanaged by roles you didn’t ask for.

You were never the problem—your body wasn’t either. These two wild worksheets help you untangle shame, roast your inner critic, and explore what actually feels good (without asking for permission). Grab them now inside The Ember Vault.

They told you to be quiet, obedient, and grateful for crumbs—and you’re here doing reflection worksheets about dismantling shame and reclaiming your turn-ons? ICONIC. This companion pack to Podcast Episodes 7 & 8 is your unapologetic toolkit for dragging purity culture, decoding your body’s shame responses, and building safety through actual pleasure (not performance). Grab a pen, light something on fire metaphorically—and let’s unlearn all their bullsh*t together.

Warning: these pages may cause side effects including empowered horniness, righteous rage, and radical clarity.