Nervous System Nope-Outs
Explore how your nervous system might be blocking pleasure during intimacy - not because you're broken, but because it's trying to protect you. These worksheets offer practical tools for understanding your body's protective patterns and expanding your capacity for embodied pleasure after trauma or religious conditioning. Paired with our podcast episodes on polyvagal theory and religious sexual trauma, these resources provide a roadmap for reclaiming your birthright to authentic, embodied sexuality.
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Congrats, You’ve Been Cast in a Role You Never Auditioned For
You’re not low libido—you’re just over pretending. This week in the Ember Vault, we’re tearing off the gender scripts that tank your turn-on and replacing them with erotic truth bombs, nervous system realness, and permission to stop performing. Your sex drive isn’t broken—it’s just done being micromanaged by roles you didn’t ask for.
Thigh Gap? Never Heard of Her.
You were never the problem—your body wasn’t either. These two wild worksheets help you untangle shame, roast your inner critic, and explore what actually feels good (without asking for permission). Grab them now inside The Ember Vault.
The Patriarchy Called…We Hung Up
They told you to be quiet, obedient, and grateful for crumbs—and you’re here doing reflection worksheets about dismantling shame and reclaiming your turn-ons? ICONIC. This companion pack to Podcast Episodes 7 & 8 is your unapologetic toolkit for dragging purity culture, decoding your body’s shame responses, and building safety through actual pleasure (not performance). Grab a pen, light something on fire metaphorically—and let’s unlearn all their bullsh*t together.
Warning: these pages may cause side effects including empowered horniness, righteous rage, and radical clarity.
Do You Even Like That?
If your current sex life is built on preferences you picked up from teen magazines, partners with opinions, or the hot shame stew of societal messaging… these worksheets are here to blow that sh*t up (gently). This isn’t about fixing your desire—it’s about getting weirdly, wildly curious about it.
Your erotic identity might just be waiting under a pile of “shoulds.” Let’s go digging.