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What If Your Turn-Ons Aren't Really Yours?

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A Playful, Science Backed Guide to Reclaiming Your Pleasure

Desire isn't a fixed destination—it's a rebellion waiting to happen.

What if everything you thought turned you on was actually programmed by porn algorithms, purity culture, and scripts you never consented to? AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist Dr. Misty Gibson rips open the hood on desire, mixing cutting-edge neuroscience with unapologetic permission to question everything you've been told about what "should" excite you.

This isn't just a book—it's a neuroinclusive pleasure reclamation project. Through science-backed insights, irreverent humor, and interactive exercises, you'll:

  • Unmask your pleasure blueprint – Trace your turn-ons to their roots and decide which ones deserve to stay

  • Decode your brain on desire – Understand how your nervous system actually learns what's hot (and why it changes)

  • Embrace your "forbidden" fantasies – Explore why the taboo is often the most tantalizing

  • Transform pressure into play – Ditch performance anxiety for authentic exploration

  • Reclaim your erotic sovereignty – With reflection prompts that don't feel like homework

This radical guide is for every neurodivergent, queer, questioning soul who's ever felt disconnected from mainstream ideas of pleasure. For anyone who's followed sexual scripts that left them bored, confused, or shame-spiraling. For every person ready to burn down external expectations and rebuild desire from the ashes.

Your pleasure was never meant to be outsourced. It's time to bring it home.

Get your copy now and start your pleasure rebellion today.

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A Playful, Science Backed Guide to Reclaiming Your Pleasure

Desire isn't a fixed destination—it's a rebellion waiting to happen.

What if everything you thought turned you on was actually programmed by porn algorithms, purity culture, and scripts you never consented to? AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist Dr. Misty Gibson rips open the hood on desire, mixing cutting-edge neuroscience with unapologetic permission to question everything you've been told about what "should" excite you.

This isn't just a book—it's a neuroinclusive pleasure reclamation project. Through science-backed insights, irreverent humor, and interactive exercises, you'll:

  • Unmask your pleasure blueprint – Trace your turn-ons to their roots and decide which ones deserve to stay

  • Decode your brain on desire – Understand how your nervous system actually learns what's hot (and why it changes)

  • Embrace your "forbidden" fantasies – Explore why the taboo is often the most tantalizing

  • Transform pressure into play – Ditch performance anxiety for authentic exploration

  • Reclaim your erotic sovereignty – With reflection prompts that don't feel like homework

This radical guide is for every neurodivergent, queer, questioning soul who's ever felt disconnected from mainstream ideas of pleasure. For anyone who's followed sexual scripts that left them bored, confused, or shame-spiraling. For every person ready to burn down external expectations and rebuild desire from the ashes.

Your pleasure was never meant to be outsourced. It's time to bring it home.

Get your copy now and start your pleasure rebellion today.

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The Pleasure of the Wait
The Pleasure of the Wait
Sale Price:$4.99 Original Price:$7.99

A Playful, Science Backed Guide to Reclaiming Your Pleasure

Desire isn't a fixed destination—it's a rebellion waiting to happen.

What if everything you thought turned you on was actually programmed by porn algorithms, purity culture, and scripts you never consented to? AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist Dr. Misty Gibson rips open the hood on desire, mixing cutting-edge neuroscience with unapologetic permission to question everything you've been told about what "should" excite you.

This isn't just a book—it's a neuroinclusive pleasure reclamation project. Through science-backed insights, irreverent humor, and interactive exercises, you'll:

  • Unmask your pleasure blueprint – Trace your turn-ons to their roots and decide which ones deserve to stay

  • Decode your brain on desire – Understand how your nervous system actually learns what's hot (and why it changes)

  • Embrace your "forbidden" fantasies – Explore why the taboo is often the most tantalizing

  • Transform pressure into play – Ditch performance anxiety for authentic exploration

  • Reclaim your erotic sovereignty – With reflection prompts that don't feel like homework

This radical guide is for every neurodivergent, queer, questioning soul who's ever felt disconnected from mainstream ideas of pleasure. For anyone who's followed sexual scripts that left them bored, confused, or shame-spiraling. For every person ready to burn down external expectations and rebuild desire from the ashes.

Your pleasure was never meant to be outsourced. It's time to bring it home.

Get your copy now and start your pleasure rebellion today.

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