When Your Body Ghosts You During Sex
Ever found yourself physically present during sex but mentally gone? Your body going through the motions while you're counting ceiling tiles? This frustrating disconnect isn't a sign that you're broken—it's your brilliant nervous system trying to protect you. Let's dive into why your body sometimes "ghosts" you during intimacy and how to reclaim your right to embodied pleasure.
Smash the Binary, Save the Sex Drive
What if your sex drive isn’t low—it’s just sick of performing gender?
This week on Untamed Ember, we’re breaking up with the binary and reclaiming pleasure outside the tired-ass scripts of “dominant vs submissive” and “masc vs femme.” From heteronormativity hangovers to queer power dynamics gone rigid, we’re exposing how gender roles sabotage sexuality—and how to rewire your erotic brain for curiosity, consent, and actual turn-ons. If you’ve ever felt boxed in by your role in bed, this one’s for you.
patriarchy and pleasure, gender roles and sexuality, shame and sex, queer relationship dynamics, sexual liberation, unlearning purity culture