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When Fantasy Outruns Capacity: Keeping CNC Ethical Without Guessing
Dr. Misty Gibson 11/28/25 Dr. Misty Gibson 11/28/25

When Fantasy Outruns Capacity: Keeping CNC Ethical Without Guessing

Keep consensual non-consent ethical by separating fantasy, agreement, and today’s capacity—with clear ripcords, landing, and repair.

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Agreements, Not Rules: Consent That Survives Real Life (ENM)
Dr. Misty Gibson 11/21/25 Dr. Misty Gibson 11/21/25

Agreements, Not Rules: Consent That Survives Real Life (ENM)

Therapist-led psychoeducation for ethical nonmonogamy—privacy vs secrecy, capacity-based consent, and values-driven agreements that adapt without shame.

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Relationship Anarchy: Autonomy, Attachment, Consent
Dr. Misty Gibson 11/14/25 Dr. Misty Gibson 11/14/25

Relationship Anarchy: Autonomy, Attachment, Consent

What relationship anarchy is (and isn’t): values, boundaries, and consent for people who won’t fit a script—therapist-first, ND-friendly.

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The Shapes of Polyamory: Kitchen-Table, Parallel, Solo, and Why Names Help
Dr. Misty Gibson 11/7/25 Dr. Misty Gibson 11/7/25

The Shapes of Polyamory: Kitchen-Table, Parallel, Solo, and Why Names Help

Therapist-led psychoeducation on common ENM structures—how naming the shape lowers conflict and clarifies consent for everyone.

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Community Consent: What Sex-Positive Spaces Get Right
Dr. Misty Gibson 10/31/25 Dr. Misty Gibson 10/31/25

Community Consent: What Sex-Positive Spaces Get Right

Translate event-level consent culture, capacity checks, clear exits, and real repair, into everyday intimacy at home. Therapist-led, ND-friendly.

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Power Exchange vs Power Over: Ethical Dominance Without Coercion
Dr. Misty Gibson 10/24/25 Dr. Misty Gibson 10/24/25

Power Exchange vs Power Over: Ethical Dominance Without Coercion

A therapist’s guide to ethical dominance; consent as capacity, clear limits, and accountable repair; so power feels safe, not coercive.

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Top Drop, Sub Drop, and the Neurochemistry of “After”
Dr. Misty Gibson 10/17/25 Dr. Misty Gibson 10/17/25

Top Drop, Sub Drop, and the Neurochemistry of “After”

Therapist-led psychoeducation on “drop” as a state change—not a failure. What’s happening in your body, and how to land without shame.

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