Your First Play Party, Just Watching (And That’s Valid)
Attend to learn, not perform, where to stand, how to decline, how to use staff, and how to debrief without shame afterward.
Phones, Photos, And Privacy, Keeping Your Future Self Safe
Why many events limit phones, how to protect identity, and consent first photo culture, with short scripts that keep your future self safe.
Vetting Kink Events Without Shame
How to read event pages, message hosts, and spot real consent culture, with accessibility and reporting paths that keep your body intact.
Consent Isn’t A Vibe, Event Etiquette In Plain Language
First time in a kink space, use plain language etiquette to make consent visible, with approach asks, capacity checks, and clean exits.
Your First Munch: Belonging Without Performance
What a munch is, why it’s the safest on-ramp to kink community, and how to show up without masking or performing, therapist led and ND friendly.
When Fantasy Outruns Capacity: Keeping CNC Ethical Without Guessing
Keep consensual non-consent ethical by separating fantasy, agreement, and today’s capacity—with clear ripcords, landing, and repair.
Community Consent: What Sex-Positive Spaces Get Right
Translate event-level consent culture, capacity checks, clear exits, and real repair, into everyday intimacy at home. Therapist-led, ND-friendly.
Power Exchange vs Power Over: Ethical Dominance Without Coercion
A therapist’s guide to ethical dominance; consent as capacity, clear limits, and accountable repair; so power feels safe, not coercive.
Top Drop, Sub Drop, and the Neurochemistry of “After”
Therapist-led psychoeducation on “drop” as a state change—not a failure. What’s happening in your body, and how to land without shame.
Switching Roles, Staying Safe: Consent for Switches
Psychoeducation on role fluidity for switches—state-based consent, mid-scene renegotiation, and dual aftercare needs, ND-friendly and therapist-led.
CNC Without Confusion: Ethics, Capacity, Off-Ramps
AASECT-aligned psychoeducation on consensual non-consent: capacity checks, revocable consent, and repair—scripts for pauses and clean endings, no technique.
SSC vs RACK vs PRICK/SSICK: Consent Frameworks That Fit Your Brain
Therapist-led psychoeducation on SSC, RACK, and PRICK/SSICK—through a trauma-informed, ND-friendly lens. Scripts for capacity checks, pauses, and debriefs.