Opening Up Doesn't Fix What's Already Broken
Opening a relationship does not repair problems that were already there. This post explores what happens when ethical non-monogamy is used as a solution for disconnection, resentment, sexual dissatisfaction, or trust issues, and why expanding a relationship usually magnifies the patterns already in place.
Agreements Aren't Rules in a Trench Coat
Calling something an agreement does not automatically make it consensual. This post unpacks the difference between agreements, rules, boundaries, and control, and why the real question is not what you call it, but whether everyone involved actually has meaningful choice.
Monogamy Was Never a Choice You Made
Most of us were taught monogamy long before anyone asked whether we actually wanted it. This post unpacks compulsory monogamy, the relationship scripts we inherit, and why questioning those scripts can stir up more than ideas. Your body learned the rules too.